Marriage has always been something I thought would last forever. It was this idealistic fantasy that as a child I would dream about while picturing that one special someone to sweep me off my feet and live with happily forever. Now marriage is a unity of convenience. Forget the vows and responsibility. If it doesn’t work, there’s always divorce. The Story of Us, directed by Rob Reiner (When Harry Met Sally), takes a unique look at one couple’s life together and speaks volumes on the trials of marriage.
Ben and Katie Jordan have problems. They’ve grown apart throughout the years and have trouble communicating. While their two children are away at summer camp, they decide to have a trial separation. During this time apart, they flash back to their past and follow the progression of how they ended up where they are.
Exceptionally played by Bruce Willis, Ben is a perfect depiction of the modern male stereotype. His emotions are genuine and you can’t help but feel his frustrations. A perfect balance of strength and vulnerability, Ben Jordan is the ideal husband of the ’90’s. On the other hand, his counterpart, Katie (Michelle Pfeiffer), is a depressed, confused woman who has lost her true self. It’s hard to relate to her feelings of anger because she brings it all upon herself. Both Willis and Pfeiffer capture the believability of their characters and play the feuding couple with skill and emotion.
With a splash of humor (not as much as I would have hoped for) and heart-wrenching arguments, The Story of Us is a disturbing portrayal of married life. Yeah, the realistic quirks between men and women are shown in a humorous way, but the underlying tone is still deeply saddening. There’s not enough laughter or love to designate this as a feel-good movie. Regardless of the choices made at the end of this movie, it’s hard to find comfort in the result. It’s sad if they separate. But it’s even more so if they stay together with all of their baggage.
Meant to be a realistic look at life, The Story of Us comes across as a rather depressing view of relationships. With high emotions and tense drama, Ben and Katie battle their way through many difficult years. With as many heavy-hitting arguments as they’ve had, it’s a wonder they ever made it this long. Sure, couples argue, but the intense nature between these specific characters is too much for even the toughest heart. If you’re happy and in love, stay clear, this movie will only drag you down. As for life’s cynics, this one’s for you.
+Ashley Adams
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